When a negotiation reaches a stalemate, you can use several strategies to move forward. First, practice active listening and tactical empathy to understand what your counterpart truly wants. Use tools like mirroring, where you repeat your counterpart's key words, and labeling, where you identify and verbalize your counterpart's fears. Ask calibrated questions that start with 'How...' or 'What...'. Remember, the first 'no' is not the end of the negotiation, but the beginning. Once your counterpart says, 'That's right!', you've reached a turning point. Also, identify your counterpart's negotiation style, whether they are an Analyst, an Accommodator, or an Assertive. Lastly, prepare for any negotiation by creating a one-sheet list of five key points that summarize your approach.
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